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Basic Strategies for Moving Forward

Most people won’t go to a therapist or see a counselor not along have access to a mentor or coach. For that reason, I have provided you the excerpt #4 from Dr. Phil’s Ten Life Laws Life Strategies by Dr. Phil Staff. This not only identifies the problem but provides you with the basic strategy for moving forward.


Life Law #4: You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.


Strategy: Get real with yourself about life and everybody in it. Be truthful about what isn't working in your life. Stop making excuses and start making results.


Truth Unveil: “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.” Proverbs 28:13


If you're unwilling or unable to identify and consciously acknowledge your negative behaviors, characteristics or life patterns, then you will not change them. (In fact, they will only grow worse and become more entrenched in your life.) You've got to face it to replace it.


Truth Unveil: “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:31-32


Acknowledgment means slapping yourself in the face with the brutal reality, admitting that you are getting payoffs for what you are doing, and giving yourself a no-kidding, bottom-line truthful confrontation. You cannot afford the luxury of lies, denial or defensiveness.


Truth Unveil: “Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord.” And you forgave the guilt of my sin.” Psalm 32:5


Where are you now? If you hope to have a winning life strategy, you have, to be honest about where your life is right now. Your life is not too bad to fix, and it's not too late to fix it. But be honest about what needs fixing. If you lie to yourself about any dimension of your life, an otherwise sound strategy will be compromised.


Truth Unveil: “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” James 5:16



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